For me I can't just ignore what happened and move on of the situation and continue to spend time together. This issue is not addressed. If I were to just ignore of what happened, and don't settle it, even if we continue and treat things did not happen, this problem is still there, and will always be there. His said he was sorry it's his fault, but I don't think he meant it. If he does, when I try to talk about his issue, he will not make it like my problem again. It became I am the problem. I can't be with someone who always never will address his own issue. And make others the issue. I can't continue like this.
Like I said I wouldn't want a open relationship if he does not find mb behind me. But yet he can push all this back to me. How to be together with someone who can't even not be defensive for once, just accept the fact that he is wrong? Coming back to the hitting part, what makes a person have the right to hit him and injured him just because he ignore him? It's a criminal offence and yet he think he is right. Everything he do he will always one to be the right one and others are all wrong.
How am i going to continue or why should I continue being with him when he never will want to address this issue at all? Yes he is caring, he is commited. But when there is a issue, he just like to surpass it and ignore it and treat it as nothing happened and not going to talk about it. This will just keep on and on and we will never stop quarrelling until he face the fact that this issue be addressed.
If he want to said its my own issue, then he should find someone who always ignore and run away with problem.
I will not be with him until he is willing to accept that his willing to face his own issue and work it out with me by listening to what I have to say and not taking all my words as a Attack and becoming defensive all and again.
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